Wedding guests wait for wedding ceremony at historic Darlington House in San Diego, California.

Photo Credit: Kami Arant Photography

What is your maximum capacity?

Our Rose Garden can seat up to 200. Please see venue management about the capacity in other areas of the venue. 

Can I choose my own caterer?

In order to preserve the integrity of our historic property, all food and beverage services must be provided by one of our Approved Caterers. You can view the list here.

Are there any alcohol restrictions?

While we do allow hard alcohol to be served, we do not allow kegs, shots, or "neat" drinks. Alcohol must be served by licensed and trained bar staff from one of our Approved Caterers.

What is the average price of a wedding at Darlington House?

Because you bring in your own vendors and there are many variables (guest count, buffet vs. plated, minimalist vs. maximalist decor, etc.) we can only quote you on the price of our venue. You’ll find our pricing here.

frequently asked questions

Am I required to have an Event Coordinator?

Yes, Darlington House requires all clients to hire a licensed and insured event coordinator.  Professional coordinators are experienced at running complicated events with many moving parts. Your coordinator will maintain the agenda for the event as well as be responsible for directing and assisting vendors in set-up and breakdown.

Does Darlington House have any noise restrictions?

Darlington House is subject to San Diego County’s noise ordinances. All music must end by 9:30 pm and a decibel meter is read throughout the event. DJs are allowed for receptions, and acoustic musicians may be used for ceremony and cocktail hour.

Where will my guests park?

Darlington House has a small parking lot dedicated to event vendors, but guests will need to find street parking. To ensure a seamless and welcoming experience for guests, we highly recommend that our clients hire Preferred Valet Parking.

Can I put up my own decorations?

For safety and to preserve the integrity of our historic property, all set-up for events must be done by insured professional vendors.

We are hoping to have our dog participate in our celebration. Is this allowed?

While we love our furry friends, our designation as a historic property prohibits pets. Service animals are always welcome, but we do appreciate a heads-up if they will be on property for your event.

Can we have a cigar bar?

Darlington House is a non-smoking facility.

Bride & Groom embrace for their first dance in the Rose Garden at Darlington House in La Jolla, California.

Photo Credit: Kami Arant Photography

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